I have never dreamed of getting married. Nope. I’ve just never been into it.

Funny thing is, it’s not the actual marriage part that I have an aversion to, it’s the actual planning of a wedding. I am not the girl who wants to walk down the aisle knowing I spent a year of planning and a small fortune on my big day. I was thinking more along the lines of Italy: maybe Positano, the beach, 10 friends and family, and renting a wonderful condo overlooking the ocean for a week. That sounds like a fun getaway that we will all remember, right?

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You never want to be the person who likes the other more, especially when you first start dating. You know...the one who hopes and wishes that this relationship will turn into something serious, while the other isn't quite sure how he/she feels in general. Being the puppy dog sucks.

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I just read this. It's supposedly "What Women Want"...so after you read it. Scroll down and I'll break down what I think women want. ;) 

What Women Want In A Man # 1: They want to be taken care of.

You don’t have to treat her like she’s made of glass. Respect her own abilities and trust that she can make it out on her own.

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My friend Rebecca was in town last week, just visiting and having a good time, until she woke up one morning and realized something wasn't right...down there. Her stomach felt a little sore, she didn't want to walk much, and it kind of burned when she would pee.

No she didn't have an STD...she had a fairly common woman problem--a urinary tract infection.

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I was looking at a website called Leftos.com--a forum where men and women can have open conversations about things like dating...and sex. And I just happened to come across this conversation on Oral Sex: http://leftos.com/opinion/view/97.

So guys, let me tell you something--women like when you go downtown on them. Yeah, sure some women are a little paranoid--maybe they haven't freshened up or haven't groomed lately, but those are the only real reasons why a woman wouldn't want you to use your mouth.

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I just got back from a trip to New York City. I worked, hung out with my friends, went to favorite restaurants, shopped, and then headed back to Los Angeles, where….well, I don’t have a lot of that to do.

Here’s the thing, it’s not like Los Angeles isn’t fun, I’m just new here and now that I’m older, it’s not as easy to make friends and find new spots to hang at because I don’t want to get out of my comfort zone. Who wants to do that past college?

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A guy just told me something VERY profound. He said, “the minute a woman thinks her man is a pansy (he used the word that also refers to a kitty), then she should dump him. It doesn’t matter how much she cares about him, if he’s a good person, if he’s good looking…nothing. If she thinks he’s a pansy, it will never work between them.”

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